when people leave

This is fairly raw. I will just warn you now.

You still have time to pass this by unless you are ready to see a new way. Not a better way, just a new way.

If you are, welcome.

So, why do some people leave?

I know this all too well and have spent the last decade trying to learn from my experience and work from within. Am I perfect? Not even close. I make mistakes, too.

In my knowing, people leave because staying in the conversation requires depth, and a lot of it. It is deafening to some who choose to overlook the truth they may not even be aware of yet.

Life has brought me many lessons, some I had to learn the hard way. The really hard way. So in 2010 I decided to learn them through consciousness rather than crisis. Yes, we have a choice and I am here to gently remind you that you too have a choice.

When we choose to learn through consciousness we are asked to be a part of a much bigger conversation, the one within. Does this mean we have to be perfect? No. Do we need to try? Yes and a lot. It is hard. It is sometimes beyond hard but we can do hard in soft ways as my mentor always used to tell me.

Some choose not to try. Some wobble. Most ignore the conversation altogether on their way out. Not to worry, this is ok. They are not meant to carry on with you anymore.

They aren’t bad people at all. They are just on their way to learning something new and life is presenting with consciousness or crisis. This looks like, “do I have a conversation or do I just leave and act like I don’t know them anymore”?

Most take the latter, it is easier for their ego.

Because we can never trust humans we have to learn how to be with them. Especially the ones who hurt us. This is the best transformation. Their lessons are not our lessons. They are on their own path. Allow them to do that. Let them be who they are in this moment in time.

I always remind myself, they would if they could.

I truly believe that if people could have difficult conversations to get to the truth, they would, but they simply cannot. It is hard. I know for myself.

So, when this happens to you just know you are not alone. You are not the problem. You are not at fault.

You are just moving forward, onwards, the other ones are the ones who need to learn still.

Let them leave, in fact, hold the door open for them. You need the magical hearts in your life, take good care of those. Trust the process, not the human.

Conversations are everything. Everything is a conversation. Stay in it with yourself. Do the next single thing that brings you peace and follow that thread.

Jocelyn x