Sunday Letters - The Ache before the Shift
Lately I’ve been feeling what I can only describe as an ache.
It’s not sadness, exactly. And it’s not doubt. It’s the ache that comes right before something shifts—like a quiet internal rearranging. Something stirs beneath the surface, and you know you can’t go back to the rhythm that no longer holds you. But the next step hasn’t quite revealed itself yet.
This past week, that ache showed up around creativity. Around Instagram. Around the quiet tension of sharing something that comes from such a personal, honest place- and then watching it disappear into the scroll without a ripple. I’m no stranger to that feeling. And yet it still surprises me how deeply it can sting.
But what I’m learning, again and again, is that creativity is not a performance, It is something we return to. It’s not about proving our worth through finished things. It’s about paying attention. It’s about living in a way that notices.
And when we begin to notice, we begin to pause.
And in that pause, something inside of us settles.
And that settling, I think, is peace.
Most people resist the pause—because to pause is to feel. And feeling can be uncomfortable in a world that teaches us to stay busy, stay loud, stay numb. But that pause? That space we create by noticing the light in the room, the weight of our own breath, the quiet beauty in an old object on the shelf—that’s where real creativity begins.
It’s from this space that I created something new—something small but meaningful.
I’m calling it The Heirloom Brief.
It’s a poetic and practical companion that now lives alongside each vintage piece in my shop. It’s more than a description—it’s a way of seeing. A moment of presence. A nudge to pause and engage with the item as something more than functional—as something that holds memory, beauty, invitation.
You’ll begin to see these briefs quietly folded into the shop now. And I’ve placed the first one here on the journal as well, in case you’d like to explore it more slowly.
Maybe this marks a shift. Not toward something louder, but toward something more rooted.
Thank you for being here. For reading. For trusting the quieter way.
With love,
Jocelyn